Men tell me all the time that the longer they wait to orgasm, the bigger it is. It's the building of momentum that creates a more intense climax. But on that same note, they almost always follow up with 'It's easier said then done!"
That is why, men ought to share their concerns with their partner. They say men don't understand women. Well, to be fair, it is here where many women don't understand men too. They wrongly assume that his heightening excitement is a sign that he wants to ejaculate asap! Not always the case.
So what can a man (and woman) do to prolong his pleasure?
For a start, going at it with the same intensity for too long is tempting fate. I know many couples find the stop-start method helpful. Personally, if I am comfortable with a man and he with me, he usually will tell me that he is close to ejaculating. If it is a quickie, I simply let things be. If not, then we will take a breather for a few minutes, make out a little or have him go down on me. The main thing is to draw attention (READ: Excitement) away from his brain (READ: Penis).
That said, men have told me that when we do this, they experience more intense orgasms. I can affirm that too because more often than not, the squirts are more powerful and the load more substantial!
Missus Singapore out!
One Woman. Many Opinions. Lots of Juice.
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